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Michael Godfrey, SPHR, Collaborates on Leading with Trust

Thursday, September 22nd, 2011

One of the things I’m really excited about in my Leadership Mastery through the Way of the Horse series is the opportunity to collaborate with amazing professionals who are expert in what they do.  I’m so pleased that Michael Godfrey, SPHR, Owner and Principal at Organizational Alchemy, joins me this fall to collaborate on the last of the 2011 workshops, Leading with Trust.

Michael and I believe that there is no single ‘best’ leadership style.  What isconsistent – and critical – is that great leaders inspire trust.  People are simply not willing to recognize someone as their leader and follow them unless they trust them, not just intellectually, but ethically and emotionally.

According to Stephen Covey in his book The Speed of Trust, there are five waves of trust – with each wave flowing out from the center like a ripple in a pond.  The first wave – self trust – is the basis of all the others.  If a leader does not have trust in themselves and their abilities, no one else can truly have trust in them.mikecato3

Our workshop helps leaders first and foremost build trust in him or herself.  Leaders learn to develop self-trust through one-on-one interaction and work with horses.  This summer, Michael attended Leadership and Horse Sense and experienced working with horses first-hand. (That’s Michael in the picture above with Cato.)

‘In the beginning’, Michael admitted, ‘I was skeptical about how working with horses could teach anyone about leadership.  Amanda quickly made a believer out of me – to the point where I am now co-facilitating a workshop!  As an experienced horsewoman and through years of experience teaching leadership, Amanda has an uncanny ability to relate and teach leadership and trust by partnering with her horses.’

Michael went on to say, Anyone can take a one or two-day leadership workshop.  Typically they are held in a work conference room or hotel.  Participants sit at round tables, listen to lecturers speak on different theoretical ideas about what leadership and trust mean.  This workshop is different.  It’s hands on.  It’s outside.  It’s about creating a bond with the horses, not through skills as a horse trainer, but by simply building trust in yourself and your ability to lead.  It will change how you view leadership.’

Michael feels there are three important things for people attending their first workshop to know:

  • ‘You really don’t need any prior horse experience – in fact, it can be a good thing.  That way, when you get results with a horse you’re working with, you know it’s your own personal success.
  • Any initial fear or unease you may have about this class quickly dissipates and only enhances your experience!
  • And thank goodness, no riding is involved!  All the exercises are on the ground.’

Together Michael and I have 40 years of leadership experience in both for-profit and non-profit organizations.  Michael is also a certified Franklin Covey trainer in The Speed of Trust.  We’ve worked together before and share a common understanding of what leadership truly means.  We have fun and our workshop will be fun too!

So, come join us for Leading with Trust.  As a leader, you’ll walk away with a different sense of what leadership is, the importance of starting with self-trust as a way to inspire and lead your team, as well as a memorable leadership experience with horses.

To learn more about Michael, visit http://www.facebook.com/pages/Organizational-Alchemy/129733567095774.

For more information:  Leading with Trust

 

Leadership Lessons from the movie “Buck”

Thursday, September 22nd, 2011
Recently, I went to see “Buck,” a critically acclaimed documentary that highlights the life and work of Buck Brannaman, one of America’s greatest horsemen and horse trainers.  The movie is about horse-human relationships. Buck doesn’t help people with horse problems, he helps horses with people problems.petsBut, there’s a lot more going on in the movie than inspiring people to make changes in how they interact with horses.  The movie touches a chord in non-horse people, too.  My friend, Laura, who is content to admire horses from a distance, went to see the movie with me.  She was moved to tears as well as surprise and delight.  On more than one occasion, she clutched my arm and whispered loudly ‘Wow!  Did you see that?!’Later, I asked Laura why the movie had made such an impression on her.  She thought about it for a minute.  ‘Well, in a way, it’s not a movie about horses.  It’s about how to build relationships with people and be a better person, too.’  Here are some insights from the movie that remind me about what horses have to teach us about trust, respect, and partnership that can help us be better leaders.

Learn about others before asking them to follow you

In the movie, Buck frequently asks questions about the horses that help him understand the horses and their owners before he starts working with them.  Buck never assumes that his vast knowledge of people and horses means he knows about that particular person and that particular horse.  He takes each horse as an individual.  Is it frightened?  Disrespectful?  How old is the horse?  How much contact has it had with people?  Does it understand what he’s asking it to do?  With that information, how can he help the horse?  Imagine what you might discover about your team if, as their leader, you approached each person with this curiosity and openness.

Encourage what works

Horses get discouraged and stop learning when we concentrate too hard on ‘getting it right.’  Our focus can become perfection and our approach rigid.  In fact, we end up fixated on what’s not working.  Buck demonstrates how little and immediate corrections, combined with gentle and immediate acknowledgments, reinforce self-confidence and motivate a horse to do what we ask.  It works with people, too.

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- Terri Inglis with Kate at a recent Leadership and Horse Sense Workshop.

 

It’s about balance 

All great horsemen understand that it’s important to find that balance between being as gentle as possible and as firm as necessary.  It’s called ‘feel’ and it’s all about knowing when it’s time to be soft and subtle, and when to take hold and mean it, to apply as much pressure as it takes to get a change.  As balanced leaders, we learn how to take hold and how to let go.  How to motivate without coddling.  How to be clear in our expectations without trying to control or fight with others.  How to get people out of their comfort zone without paralyzing them with fear.

Whatever is going on with your people is about you

A horse person understands and takes to heart that any issue with a horse is usually not about the horse at all.  Rather, it’s about what the horse is reflecting back to you.  As Buck says, ‘Your horse is a mirror to your soul, and sometimes you may not like what you see.  Sometimes, you will.’  It’s a lesson in humility and courageous practice for us to stop and ask ourselves, ‘What am I doing as a leader to contribute to this?  What do I need to shift?’

If you haven’t already, I hope you’ll see this moving and powerful movie.  When you have (or if you have already seen it), I invite you to share with me what you learn.

 

 

 

Leading in Ways that Matter

Monday, April 4th, 2011

As spring returns, I often find myself and my clients approaching our work with renewed resolve.  Perhaps that’s because spring often sparks a motivation to reach and stretch ourselves in new ways as leaders.

If you’re feeling ready to ‘spring’ into learning breakthroughs that will expand your potential for excellent leadership, I invite you to join me, the horses, and my special guest instructors for the  2011 Leadership Mastery Program through the Way of the Horse.

I’ve built this program around my core beliefs about leadership development:

  • Competency in emotional intelligence, or EQ, is where it’s at.  This is what distinguishes great leaders from good ones.
  • A strong EQ skill set is just the beginning.  Many good leaders have strong personal and interpersonal skills.  What great leaders have is EQ competency – a combination of personal and relationship skills that set them apart from others.  Think of it this way:  just because you lift weights doesn’t mean you can complete a triathlon.
  • When it comes to building EQ competency, traditional learning approaches and environments just aren’t all that effective.  Experiential learning, coaching and peer feedback in real-time work, and they work powerfully well.

This three-part series is for those of you who are ready to translate your skill set into EQ competency and truly engage your capacity for leadership.  Each session builds on the last.  I encourage you to take the first session, followed by one or both of the advanced sessions. Read more.

Session I

Leading with Emotional Intelligence lays the foundation for developing personal competency through self-awareness and self-management skills.  Emotionally intelligent leaders know themselves and can translate this self-awareness into effective self-management. Read more.

Session II

The Language of Connection opens the door to storytelling as an essential communication skill for leaders. Featuring professional storyteller Doug Banner with Amanda and the Epona Meadows’ herd, you’ll create and learn to tell the stories you need to motivate, communicate and establish strong relationships with your team. Read more.

Session III

Leading from your Core helps you cultivate the physical credibility you need to lead with poiseand authority. Join acclaimed choreographer JoAnna Mendl-Shaw, Amanda, and the Epona Meadows herd to explore how movement and intention ground and center your leadership effectiveness. Read more.

I encourage anyone looking for a powerful experience that will transform your perceptions of leadership to register now.  I keep enrollment limited to 12 people per session so that every participant gets plenty of time for individualized attention, small group learning, and opportunities to work with the inspiring equine partners of Epona Meadows.

Happy Spring!

PS:  If you’ve already attended one of my workshops, or have attended another equine facilitated learning workshop with another instructor, and would like to take one of the advanced sessions, get in touch with me.

Executive Coaching Builds High-Functioning Leadership Team

Thursday, November 11th, 2010

Alison Carl White and Amanda first established their coaching relationship in 2004, when Alison became the Executive Diretor for Seattle Works.  New to the non-profit sector, she couldn’t help but think, ‘Oh my goodness what have I gotten myself into?’  With Amanda by her side as her executive coach, Alison not only got off to a great start, she flourished.  ‘I still consider Amanda’s coaching the best money Seattle Works spent on me.’

This summer, after accepting the Executive Director position at NPower, Alison sought Amanda’s services again.  ‘One of the smartest things I did was to meet with Amanda prior to starting at NPower.  The organization had gone through an extended period of executive transition and I knew that NPower needed me to be a strong leader right out of the gate.’

Alison signed up for Amanda’s six-month Leadership Accelerator Coaching Package.  Her weekly coaching sessions focused on how to help Alison lead a much larger organization, manage a staff that was tired out from two years of change, and work with a board that was ready to get going on strategic priorities.  ‘Amanda’s coaching really supported me as I dealt with some pressing issues in the first 90 days and in helping me regulate the pace of new organizational changes.  I felt confident that I could move everyone to the other side of the transition smoothly with speed and grace.’

Alison quickly realized that she also needed to get to know her senior management team.  ‘We just needed to spend time together and get some cohesion as a group.’  The solution?  A three-day leadership offsite for Alison and her senior team, designed and facilitated by Amanda.

‘Amanda did a great job of putting something together that really worked for us,’ Alison reflected.  ‘She asked us all to read Patrick Lencioni’s Five Dysfunctions of a Team before the offsite.  She stood his concept on its head a little and gave us her version of Five Functions of a High Performing Team.  We focused on trust-building, conflict management, and ended up with operating agreements and a strategic goal for our leadership team.’

‘On top of that, Amanda employed creative facilitation like the Marshmallow Challenge, which  helped us look at our collective collaboration style.’  Alison’s team also enjoyed Visit our Village, an exercise that was particularly helpful in addressing organizational culture and history.  ‘This was a powerful way for the leadership team to share their feelings about the past.  It was a cleansing process that resulted in a sense of closure, and ultimately gave us a clean slate from which we can move forward as a team.’

Horses Help Leaders Learn Emotional Smarts

Thursday, November 11th, 2010

When Asa Irwin, Major Gifts Officer at Friends of Youth signed up for Emotionally Intelligent Leadership through the Way of the Horse, she wasn’t sure what to expect.  ‘I didn’t have any preconceived idea of what was going to happen, but I was very curious about working with the horses.’  Offered at a special rate to graduates of the University of Washington’s Nonprofit Management Program, the one-day leadership training helped participants:

  • Learn the communication keys of body language and how those keys affect their relationships
  • Gain greater awareness of their emotions
  • Understand the importance of leading with emotional honesty
  • Develop their personal presence and self-confidence as a leader.

Throughout the day, leaders from the nonprofit sector worked one-on-one and in small groups with the horses to practice leadership and EQ skills.  ‘It was nice to meet different people who work in the same field.  I also really enjoyed that we were outdoors, in a non-typical learning environment,’ says Asa.

In one exercise, Asa and her colleagues were instructed to move a single horse, with no halter or lead rope, through an obstacle course.  ‘The key is staying focused on each step in the process,’ reflects Asa.  ‘If you lose your focus as a leader, the horse mirrors that for you.  They stop following you.  Or they walk away from you.  They sense your distraction or lack of commitment in that moment.  The most significant learning for me,’ continues Asa, ‘was coming to understand that as a leader, I need to make and keep my commitment to each step in the process.’

Another attendee, Catherine Stehr, MA, also appreciated the effectiveness of working with horses to develop leadership skills.  ‘The day was a special experience in how much horses have to teach us about ourselves as leaders.  They are so perceptive and honest.  The Epona Meadows herd showed me how being congruent in my spoken and unspoken language can bring me closer or farther away from my team and our goals.’

Asa adds, ‘It’s rare to be in a situation where you can actually practice leadership and get instant feedback.  I was able to take the concepts and make them real for myself.  If I tried something, and didn’t get the response I was looking for from the horses, I could change my approach and try again.’

‘Sometimes’ she remembers, ‘I was a little uncertain about trying something with the horses.  I realized, though, that as leaders we all have to confront our fear and discomfort.  I learned how important it is to approach that sort of situation in a way that your leadership and integrity stay intact.  The horses were so kind and generous.  When I got it, they let me know right away and that was powerful reinforcement.’

Both Asa and Catherine were impressed with Amanda’s facilitation.  ‘Amanda is an amazing and insightful teacher, leader, and guide,’ comments Catherine.  ‘She uses humor, candor and practical experience to help her clients find clarity for themselves.’

‘Amanda was able to give real life examples of how to integrate the principles we learned in the arena into real life’, says Asa.  ‘She knows how to listen and allow space for people to think and talk through things.’

‘The most important thing for me,’ Asa notes, ‘is that this training was actually about more than leadership at work.  We all have chances, in every aspect of our life, to be a leader and foster leadership in other people.  This experience was an authentic life lesson for me.’

Catherine agrees.  ‘What I learned about the way I show up as a leader is invaluable to me and the work I do. If you really want to learn to be an effective leader, Emotionally Intelligent Leadership through the Way of the Horse is a must.’


Emotionally Intelligent Leadership through the Way of the Horse

Saturday, May 15th, 2010

Space still available for June 11!

CatoA One Day Workshop

Are you a current student or alumni of the University of Washington Nonprofit or Fundraising Management Certificate Programs?  Then you can still  sign up at the early bird price for this experiential workshop.  Come spend a day with the horses of Epona Meadows and discover how working with horses can increase your leadership and EQ skills!

  • Learn how body language is a primary source of communication.
  • Learn how to trust your feelings and your ‘gut’.
  • Gain greater awareness of your own emotions and how to use them constructively.
  • Expanded personal power, and self-confidence as a leader.
  • Determine how your behavior as a leader affects your communications and relationships with others.
  • Register online at EventBriteEarly bird registration deadline is extended to May 31.  The horses of Epona Meadows and I look forward to working with you!

    Emotionally Intelligent Leadership through the Way of the Horse

    Tuesday, April 6th, 2010

    CatoA One Day Workshop

    Are you a current student or alumni of the University of Washington Nonprofit or Fundraising Management Certificate Programs?

    Curious about Experiential Leadership with Horses?

    Then check out this limited, one-time only, Special Offer!

    Many of my students over the last two years have expressed an interest in experiential leadership with horses.  Because of this, I’ve scheduled three workshops, at a discounted rate, only for UW students and alumni of these two Certificate Programs.

    Download the PDF brochure and registration form to mail a check. Or you can register online at EventBrite.  Early bird registration deadline is April  23rd.  The horses of Epona Meadows and I look forward to working with you!

    Kid’s Quest

    Tuesday, February 2nd, 2010

    “Come Explore, Play and Learn Together” is the tagline for KidsQuest Children’s Museum in Bellevue, Washington.  It also describes my vision for how it should feel to participate in effective strategic planning.  After completing a feasibility study, KidsQuest came to me to help them get ready for a future capital campaign by developing their first strategic plan.

    Although not quite ready to embark on a capital campaign, KidsQuest has experienced meteoric growth.  To give you an idea of how fast they’ve grown, Putter Bert, KidsQuest Executive Director reports, “We originally anticipated 60,000 first-year visitors when we opened in 2005.  In reality, we saw 166,000 visitors and 4,500 new family memberships.  Since then we have averaged 145,000 visits annually!”

    Their continued success is due in large part to an exceptional Executive Director and a dynamic board of directors who have a strategic intuition about doing the right thing, right.  Many already had previous planning experiences that had left them feeling frustrated, tired, and jaded.   They wanted a process that would 1) leverage the work already done in the feasibility study, so they wouldn’t have to repeat stakeholder activities, 2) respect the time, talents and energy of the leadership group involved, 3) keep the focus on a few, significant priorities, and 4) be succinct and easily memorable.

    I worked closely with Putter and the Planning Committee to create a process that met their needs.  For example, we used a minimal committee structure and teams of two or three planning volunteers with expertise who could quickly and easily execute specific tasks.  This worked well when we decided to revise the Vision, Mission and Core Values of the museum.  Believe it or not, it only took two meetings of three people to get it done!

    Putter notes that as a young organization, there was also a tendency for people to reference the original founding vision, instead of looking forward to where the museum was heading.  Teasing out all of the points of view in a positive and productive manner was an important part of helping to shift the focus forward.

    “Amanda has a great knack to make sure everyone is involved, all the voices and opinions.  She was not the same-old, same-old.  Some of our more seasoned volunteers found her compelling and that help keep them in the game.”

    The plan brought together the various board perspectives – both historians and visionaries – into a shared vision.  And knowing where they are heading has helped keep the focus on priorities and off of the tension that comes with conflicting points of view.

    I used the 5 Bold Action Steps, a visual priority map, as a way to help the group keep the big picture in mind.  It also brought new life to a process that some board members feared might be boring.  Instead, they discovered that planning can be a fun and visual activity with an end product that lives on in the organization.  As Putter comments:

    “We constantly refer to the 5 Bold Action Steps of our plan as we move forward.  It’s posted in our conference room.  The committee heads keep their strategic goals front and center, and our new Mission and Vision is on all of our agendas.”

    The best strategic plans align your activities with your vision.  When play is a core part of your business, shouldn’t everyone involved have some fun?

    Meydenbauer Center

    Tuesday, February 2nd, 2010

    Stacy Graven, Executive Director

    Stacy Graven, Executive Director

    As a result of the great work Amanda did with KidsQuest Children’s Museum (I’m a KidsQuest board member), I asked her to work with me and my leadership team at the Meydenbauer Center – Bellevue, Washington’s $8 million premier convention center and performing arts theatre. We operate with a strategic as well as annual business and marketing plans.  We regularly scan our environment, and seek out and receive feedback from our customers.

    We didn’t need to re-do our mission or start again with a strategic plan.  We didn’t need more analysis.  We needed a shorter-term strategy that intersected with the good work we’d already completed.  Amanda worked with me up front to understand exactly what I was looking for and created a program that fit both my needs and my budget.

    In just five sessions, we developed an 18-month strategic framework that specifically addresses how we will deal with issues that affect us in the new economy.  She helped us put together a one-page strategic framework, with a Thematic Goal.  From this flowed four Defining Objectives that aligned with five Standard Operating Objectives.  Efficient.  Practical.  Cost-effective.  She definitely delivered what we wanted and where there was an opportunity for her to share a little more of her expertise with us she did so!

    For example, our group – like any group – had some exterior issues at play.  Amanda was great a reading them and encouraging our team to frankly discuss and look at ways to resolve the issues.  The most rewarding part of our work is we have a vision for our future, a game plan for how to get there and we have the tools to make our meetings more effective to assist us in reaching our goals.

    We look forward to keeping a working relationship with Roam Consulting so that if/when we get derailed she can help get us back on track and keep us there!

    Bringing People Together to visualize their higher purpose

    Friday, January 29th, 2010
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    Seldovia Village Tribe (SVT) is vital to the health and well-being of the remote communities it serves on the Kenai Peninsula.  Tribal headquarters are located in Seldovia, a village on the shores of beautiful Cook Inlet.  There are no roads to Seldovia.  The only access to this once ancient gathering place for trade is by plane or boat.

    Yet, SVT has a far reach, serving more than 3,000 Natives and non-Natives with medical and dental services, prevention and community support programs.  Now one of the largest employers on the Peninsula, SVT contributes to the region’s economic development through retail, hospitality and transportation enterprises, and environmental protection programs.

    As a result of their recent and rapid growth, SVT leadership recognized it was time to develop a strategic plan and formalize their vision, mission and core values.  Keren Kelly [see photo], Associate Director of SVT’s medical clinic and Strategic Planning Lead, invited me to help them facilitate their process in spring – early summer 2009.

    Strategic planning is more than a business activity.  It’s an opportunity to build relationships – even friendships – by engaging people in conversations that lift the spirit and galvanize them around a shared sense of the future.  For six months, we worked hard to produce a plan that included input from staff, clients and customers, and the larger community.  We grappled with big issues, like how to:

    • Create better understanding of the tribe and its contributions to the community, in its communities.
    • Recruit and retain staff in remote areas.
    • Create internal systems to better manage and communicate with a large staff in multiple locations.
    • Remain anchored in SVT’s geographic heritage while maintaining a strong connection to tribal members, wherever they are.

    We also incorporated opportunities for staff and council leaders to connect in ways that created a deeper organizational understanding of SVT’s history and roots as they looked to define their future.  I used graphic recording to create a timeline of pictures and words that allowed the group to see their history ‘come to life.’  Keren reports that this visual timeline was critical to creating their shared vision:  “The timeline allowed us to see the history and accomplishments of our tribe’s mission.  It helped us look towards the future – where we needed to go from there.”

    As we worked together over the summer, a deeper sense of teamwork and shared purpose among staff also emerged.  Keren reflects on this as one of the most meaningful results of the plan.  “You drew out each person and brought us together in a way that allowed us to respect each other through our own life experiences and created an empathetic atmosphere for future relations.  I especially liked your ability to move through complex and emotional topics which could have halted the process entirely.”

    Yes, strategic planning is serious work.  And, it creates meaningful connections and better relationships.  When people meet each other in authentic discussions, the results achieved can be long-lasting.  It is a privilege for me to help leaders reconnect their organizations, and the people within them, to their higher purpose.