Emotionally Intelligent Leadership through the Way of the Horse

May 15th, 2010

Space still available for June 11!

CatoA One Day Workshop

Are you a current student or alumni of the University of Washington Nonprofit or Fundraising Management Certificate Programs?  Then you can still  sign up at the early bird price for this experiential workshop.  Come spend a day with the horses of Epona Meadows and discover how working with horses can increase your leadership and EQ skills!

  • Learn how body language is a primary source of communication.
  • Learn how to trust your feelings and your ‘gut’.
  • Gain greater awareness of your own emotions and how to use them constructively.
  • Expanded personal power, and self-confidence as a leader.
  • Determine how your behavior as a leader affects your communications and relationships with others.
  • Register online at EventBriteEarly bird registration deadline is extended to May 31.  The horses of Epona Meadows and I look forward to working with you!



    Emotionally Intelligent Leadership through the Way of the Horse

    April 6th, 2010

    CatoA One Day Workshop

    Are you a current student or alumni of the University of Washington Nonprofit or Fundraising Management Certificate Programs?

    Curious about Experiential Leadership with Horses?

    Then check out this limited, one-time only, Special Offer!

    Many of my students over the last two years have expressed an interest in experiential leadership with horses.  Because of this, I’ve scheduled three workshops, at a discounted rate, only for UW students and alumni of these two Certificate Programs.

    Download the PDF brochure and registration form to mail a check. Or you can register online at EventBrite.  Early bird registration deadline is April  23rd.  The horses of Epona Meadows and I look forward to working with you!



    Kid’s Quest

    February 2nd, 2010

    “Come Explore, Play and Learn Together” is the tagline for KidsQuest Children’s Museum in Bellevue, Washington.  It also describes my vision for how it should feel to participate in effective strategic planning.  After completing a feasibility study, KidsQuest came to me to help them get ready for a future capital campaign by developing their first strategic plan.

    Although not quite ready to embark on a capital campaign, KidsQuest has experienced meteoric growth.  To give you an idea of how fast they’ve grown, Putter Bert, KidsQuest Executive Director reports, “We originally anticipated 60,000 first-year visitors when we opened in 2005.  In reality, we saw 166,000 visitors and 4,500 new family memberships.  Since then we have averaged 145,000 visits annually!”

    Their continued success is due in large part to an exceptional Executive Director and a dynamic board of directors who have a strategic intuition about doing the right thing, right.  Many already had previous planning experiences that had left them feeling frustrated, tired, and jaded.   They wanted a process that would 1) leverage the work already done in the feasibility study, so they wouldn’t have to repeat stakeholder activities, 2) respect the time, talents and energy of the leadership group involved, 3) keep the focus on a few, significant priorities, and 4) be succinct and easily memorable.

    I worked closely with Putter and the Planning Committee to create a process that met their needs.  For example, we used a minimal committee structure and teams of two or three planning volunteers with expertise who could quickly and easily execute specific tasks.  This worked well when we decided to revise the Vision, Mission and Core Values of the museum.  Believe it or not, it only took two meetings of three people to get it done!

    Putter notes that as a young organization, there was also a tendency for people to reference the original founding vision, instead of looking forward to where the museum was heading.  Teasing out all of the points of view in a positive and productive manner was an important part of helping to shift the focus forward.

    “Amanda has a great knack to make sure everyone is involved, all the voices and opinions.  She was not the same-old, same-old.  Some of our more seasoned volunteers found her compelling and that help keep them in the game.”

    The plan brought together the various board perspectives – both historians and visionaries – into a shared vision.  And knowing where they are heading has helped keep the focus on priorities and off of the tension that comes with conflicting points of view.

    I used the 5 Bold Action Steps, a visual priority map, as a way to help the group keep the big picture in mind.  It also brought new life to a process that some board members feared might be boring.  Instead, they discovered that planning can be a fun and visual activity with an end product that lives on in the organization.  As Putter comments:

    “We constantly refer to the 5 Bold Action Steps of our plan as we move forward.  It’s posted in our conference room.  The committee heads keep their strategic goals front and center, and our new Mission and Vision is on all of our agendas.”

    The best strategic plans align your activities with your vision.  When play is a core part of your business, shouldn’t everyone involved have some fun?



    Meydenbauer Center

    February 2nd, 2010

    Stacy Graven, Executive Director

    Stacy Graven, Executive Director

    As a result of the great work Amanda did with KidsQuest Children’s Museum (I’m a KidsQuest board member), I asked her to work with me and my leadership team at the Meydenbauer Center – Bellevue, Washington’s $8 million premier convention center and performing arts theatre. We operate with a strategic as well as annual business and marketing plans.  We regularly scan our environment, and seek out and receive feedback from our customers.

    We didn’t need to re-do our mission or start again with a strategic plan.  We didn’t need more analysis.  We needed a shorter-term strategy that intersected with the good work we’d already completed.  Amanda worked with me up front to understand exactly what I was looking for and created a program that fit both my needs and my budget.

    In just five sessions, we developed an 18-month strategic framework that specifically addresses how we will deal with issues that affect us in the new economy.  She helped us put together a one-page strategic framework, with a Thematic Goal.  From this flowed four Defining Objectives that aligned with five Standard Operating Objectives.  Efficient.  Practical.  Cost-effective.  She definitely delivered what we wanted and where there was an opportunity for her to share a little more of her expertise with us she did so!

    For example, our group – like any group – had some exterior issues at play.  Amanda was great a reading them and encouraging our team to frankly discuss and look at ways to resolve the issues.  The most rewarding part of our work is we have a vision for our future, a game plan for how to get there and we have the tools to make our meetings more effective to assist us in reaching our goals.

    We look forward to keeping a working relationship with Roam Consulting so that if/when we get derailed she can help get us back on track and keep us there!



    Bringing People Together to visualize their higher purpose

    January 29th, 2010
    Click on this image to go to the website where you can view a slideshow

    Click on this image to go to the website. Then click on this same image there to view a slideshow.

    Seldovia Village Tribe (SVT) is vital to the health and well-being of the remote communities it serves on the Kenai Peninsula.  Tribal headquarters are located in Seldovia, a village on the shores of beautiful Cook Inlet.  There are no roads to Seldovia.  The only access to this once ancient gathering place for trade is by plane or boat.

    Yet, SVT has a far reach, serving more than 3,000 Natives and non-Natives with medical and dental services, prevention and community support programs.  Now one of the largest employers on the Peninsula, SVT contributes to the region’s economic development through retail, hospitality and transportation enterprises, and environmental protection programs.

    As a result of their recent and rapid growth, SVT leadership recognized it was time to develop a strategic plan and formalize their vision, mission and core values.  Keren Kelly [see photo], Associate Director of SVT’s medical clinic and Strategic Planning Lead, invited me to help them facilitate their process in spring – early summer 2009.

    Strategic planning is more than a business activity.  It’s an opportunity to build relationships – even friendships – by engaging people in conversations that lift the spirit and galvanize them around a shared sense of the future.  For six months, we worked hard to produce a plan that included input from staff, clients and customers, and the larger community.  We grappled with big issues, like how to:

    • Create better understanding of the tribe and its contributions to the community, in its communities.
    • Recruit and retain staff in remote areas.
    • Create internal systems to better manage and communicate with a large staff in multiple locations.
    • Remain anchored in SVT’s geographic heritage while maintaining a strong connection to tribal members, wherever they are.

    We also incorporated opportunities for staff and council leaders to connect in ways that created a deeper organizational understanding of SVT’s history and roots as they looked to define their future.  I used graphic recording to create a timeline of pictures and words that allowed the group to see their history ‘come to life.’  Keren reports that this visual timeline was critical to creating their shared vision:  “The timeline allowed us to see the history and accomplishments of our tribe’s mission.  It helped us look towards the future – where we needed to go from there.”

    As we worked together over the summer, a deeper sense of teamwork and shared purpose among staff also emerged.  Keren reflects on this as one of the most meaningful results of the plan.  “You drew out each person and brought us together in a way that allowed us to respect each other through our own life experiences and created an empathetic atmosphere for future relations.  I especially liked your ability to move through complex and emotional topics which could have halted the process entirely.”

    Yes, strategic planning is serious work.  And, it creates meaningful connections and better relationships.  When people meet each other in authentic discussions, the results achieved can be long-lasting.  It is a privilege for me to help leaders reconnect their organizations, and the people within them, to their higher purpose.



    6 ways an Executive Coach Can Help You

    October 20th, 2009

    Are any of the following areas challenges you could use a sounding board to help you with?  Email me to set up a time to find out how I can help you!

    1. Increase effectiveness as a leader.
    2. Get unstuck from a dilemma.
    3. Navigate difficult terrain.
    4. Learn how to better lead your team.
    5. Learn new skills and cope with change.
    6. Assist with executive transition or succession planning


    What to expect from a coach… What to expect from yourself

    October 20th, 2009

    What to expect from a coach

    • Set appropriate boundaries and policies.
    • Expect you to set the agenda for each session.
    • Listen to you carefully on multiple levels.
    • Ask powerful, direct questions.
    • Genuinely appreciate, endorse and support your success.
    • Take the risk to be wrong rather than holding back important truths.
    • Assist you in setting goals, planning and strategizing action steps.
    • Give perspectives, options, and suggestions to create awareness and catalyze your own solutions.
    • Make powerful requests to deepen your process between sessions.

    What to expect from yourself in your coaching sessions

    • Make your coaching sessions a priority.
    • Come to each session with a specific agenda or discussion topic.
    • Complete what you agree to do.  Use what you learn.  Do your own work.
    • Be open-minded and willing to try new approaches.  Stretch outside your comfort zone!
    • Be responsible for your own feelings, decisions and actions.  Be responsible for your success.
    • Get to know yourself as you are now and ask yourself to change to become who you want to be as a leader.
    • Tell me the truth.  Tell yourself the truth.  Tell the truth to others.
    • Be willing to change your beliefs if they do not serve you anymore.


    Experiential Coaching with Horses: Immediate, impossible-to-ignore feedback

    October 20th, 2009

    Judi & Cato during a coaching session.Sometimes it seems everyone is pulling in different directions, but in fact they are all working on the same goal.  Judi Jones was Advertising Support Manager at Microsoft when she began working with me.  First, she attended the 2-day Leading with Trust Workshop with her management team.  She and her two peers were aware they had trouble working together and had tried everything they knew to improve their relationship.  With a new director coming in, it was an ideal time to break old, dysfunctional patterns.

    Many of my clients have discovered that with a horse as your coach, you can get to the core of an issue in minutes, rather than the hours it might take with traditional coaching.  This was true for Judi as well.  “Horses don’t care about politics or prestige,” says Jones.  “They only respond to clear, consistent communication.  If you ask a horse to start trotting, he will – but only for as long as you keep asking him to do it.  The minute you stop being clear and consistent, he’ll go back to walking.”

    Turns out that people also share the requirement for consistent, clear communication.  “We discovered our problem was our goal had not been defined with enough clarity.  We weren’t intentionally working against each other; we just had a different point of view of what our goal was.”

    The long-term benefit to the team was that everyone – from managers to direct reports – had new levels of trust in one another.  “In just two days we could see why we went astray, had clarified our goals, and developed new skills to keep everyone on the same page.”

    For Judi, the insight gleaned from working with horses was strong enough that she signed up for an individual coaching session in the round pen.  “Working with Amanda one-on-one was even more powerful.  I was not distracted by the group and Amanda was able to give me even more specific feedback about how my body language was not in alignment with what I was communicating with my words.”

    Does your message seem to be missing the mark?  Perhaps your team is pulling in different directions?  Email me to find out how coaching with horses can result in immediate, transformative changes in your leadership style.

    Judi’s Equine insights:

    • Horses only respond to people they trust.
    • Horses give you immediate feedback when your words, tone and body language are not saying the same thing.
    • You just can’t it fake it with a horse, no matter how hard you try.
    • Horses are very perceptive – they read our emotions that are below the surface.


    When the challenge of a promotion requires more than training

    October 20th, 2009

    We all know that being hired for your first Executive Director’s position is a thrilling opportunity.  But even when you know you’re ready for it, stepping into that role can be a lonely challenge.  When Sara Ballard became Executive Director of Volunteer Center of Lewis, Mason & Thurston Counties, she realized an outside perspective could help her organization think outside the box more effectively than any training session could.  Luckily she had the insight to seek out a coach to help her jumpstart her effectiveness in her new role.

    “When I started with the Volunteer Center, I saw there were some thorny issues that needed to be addressed.  I’d had all the training and experience you could have short of holding the job.  And in our tight community I couldn’t go to my peers for counsel because I couldn’t fully disclose the pertinent details.  Amanda had the outside perspective I needed to figure out what the conversation with staff and the board would look like.  And more importantly what I needed to do, as a leader, to help my team get to where we needed to be.”

    Sara and I started with a six-month coaching package.  We hit the ground running to problem solve staffing issues, prioritize organizational strategy and define how she wants to lead her team.  “The big ‘a-ha!’ for me was realizing my new job challenge was not just about stepping up my leadership skills.  It was about defining a new leadership mission for myself in the context of my new role.

    By looking at the big picture, Sara helped her organization dramatically shift in a very short period of time and shifted into monthly sessions.  “I only get an hour with Amanda once a month so it needs to be a really effective conversation.  She’s a good listener – giving me a chance to vent – but strategically interjects, at the right moment, pointed questions to focus on the core issues.”

    Almost a year into her new position, Sara feels her organization is now well focused to serve her community as efficiently and as effectively as it can with limited resources.  I continue to work with Sara, serving primarily as a sounding board.  “You don’t want to spend your whole day putting out fires.  Amanda helps me keep focused on investing in the changes that will have the greatest, long-term impact.”

    Sara’s Coaching Insights:

    • Identify core strategies and goals to shift from reactive to strategic leadership.
    • Frame employee conversations to help improve relationships.
    • Awareness that it’s not just about me, but about moving our organization’s mission forward.


    October 2009

    October 20th, 2009

    For most leaders fall is a busy time of year.  Layer on an uncertain and difficult economic climate and we all tend to hunker-down a little.  This month I hope to nudge you to consider including your own personal leadership development on your busy agenda.  Why?

    The most important thing that you can do to keep up with the change and uncertainty we presently face is to make sure that your leadership skills are keenly honed and stay that way.  And even the most optimistic and forward-thinking leaders need support from time to time.  No one can be an effective leader by going it alone, particularly when managing large–scale organizational change.  As a leader, you must be the first to recognize this and plan accordingly if you want to make the most of the rare opportunities presented by current conditions.

    Viewing your situation from a different perspective helps you have the courage to take risks, find creative solutions to solve thorny problems, and realign your business to thrive into the future.  And you must be willing to ask for help.  It’s OK, even necessary, to be open with others, and to look to trusted friends and business associates for support.

    Coaching can help you move the dial on your leadership abilities.  In this issue I introduce you to two of my recent coaching clients.  Sara used leadership coaching to jumpstart her success in a new position.  Judi found new self awareness and insight through a combination of traditional coaching and a few experiential coaching sessions with my horses.  But first, let’s start by exploring the big picture:  What is coaching all about?

    Leadership or executive coaching is a powerful tool to help you get to the next level or “unstuck.”  When you work with me as your coach, we begin by clarifying your particular needs and setting attainable goals.  Not only do I work with you by developing who you are personally as a leader, I also give you the tools to ensure you can handle workplace challenges, reduce stress and increase your sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.  In particular, I assist you in:

    • Developing creative ‘solutions’ based thinking,
    • Seeing the opportunity in the problem or crisis,
    • Leading with your heart as well as your intellect,
    • Keeping your team focused on the future, not just current reality,
    • Developing your leadership message for turbulent times.

    Coaching is about your leadership goals
    If you hire me as your coach, I assume that you are ready to make meaningful changes in your leadership style, skills, and abilities.  While our sessions can sometimes be a combination of coaching and training, our relationship is about your leadership goals – not what I think is best for you.  As my client, I expect you to bring your best.  You can count on me to be a good listener, not be distracted by side issues, ask you pointed questions, offer constructive criticism, and even to help you laugh about yourself some.

    If I see something in your body language, hear something in your voice, or notice other behavior that tells me something is amiss, I’ll probably ask you about it.  Often, this outside perspective can yield the small moments that bring about the biggest shifts.